It’s been several days since I last wrote a blog post and I wanted to take a moment to explain why. Life has been quite a roller coaster lately, particularly with my pregnancy journey. As a result, the last few days have been a balancing act. I hope that by sharing my experiences, I can connect with other women who may be facing similar challenges and offer a sense of understanding, empathy, and support.
The All-Day Affair of Morning Sickness
Last Thursday, the world of morning sickness hit me like a ton of bricks. “Morning sickness” is so much more than just the morning. To say it’s been an all-day affair would be an understatement. Nausea, vomiting, and an overwhelming sense of achiness became companions that stayed by my side throughout Thursday and Friday. It was a constant battle to keep any food down and find some relief. Without getting into the thick of it, let’s just say that I vomited more times in two days than I care to talk about. It was horrendous. Everytime I stood up, I had to vomit again. Not to mention, I still had to work my job on both Thursday and Friday.
Balancing House Hunting and Chores
Saturday brought some respite, but it was a busy day filled with house hunting and taking care of chores. As my fiancé and I are in the process of finding a new home together, we had a long list of to do’s on Saturday – visiting a house, putting in an offer, and then working on some chores at my house, which will go on the market once we buy a house together. Balancing the excitement of house hunting with the physical challenges of pregnancy is no easy feat. Despite feeling exhausted, we managed to cover a lot of ground, but it left me yearning for a moment of calm.
Sunday’s Journey Towards Rest
Sunday was dedicated to finishing up the remaining chores at my own house and meeting an agent that will eventually be listing my house. Then, we headed back to my fiance’s house to wrap up the evening. The exhaustion from the previous couple of days had taken its toll, especially after a restless night on Saturday. As a result, I made sure to carve out some time for relaxation and simply taking it easy. I know that it is crucial to honor my body’s need for rest and rejuvenation. I also taught my fiance how to play Rummikub, which was one of my favorite games growing up.
Embracing the Journey and Finding Normalcy
Pregnancy is a beautiful and transformative experience, but it can also be incredibly challenging as I have come to learn. It’s essential to remember that each woman’s journey is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to navigating pregnancy. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and even frustrated at times. Embracing our emotions and acknowledging our limitations is a crucial part of finding balance.
During pregnancy, it’s important for women to prioritize their well-being and find ways to stay grounded amidst the chaos. Taking care of yourself is essential for a healthy and happy pregnancy. Here are some practical strategies to help you stay strong and find moments of relaxation:
- Make self-care a priority by practicing activities that bring you joy and peace, such as taking warm baths, reading a good book, or engaging in gentle exercises like prenatal yoga.
- Surround yourself with a supportive network of family and friends who can offer emotional support and lend a helping hand when needed.
- Practice deep breathing exercises and mindfulness techniques to calm your mind and release stress.
- Don’t hesitate to ask for help and delegate tasks to lighten your load.
Conclusion
It’s important to remember that life still happens, despite pregnancy. Sometimes we have to put our plans on hold to take care of life.
To my fellow women who are currently experiencing the ups and downs of pregnancy, I want you to know that you are not alone. The physical and emotional challenges we face are valid, and it’s okay to ask for help and support when needed. Lean on your loved ones, reach out to online communities, and seek solace in the shared experiences of others.
