Hey, Blunt Bumps community! It’s been an eventful week as we began spilling the beans about our pregnancy. Join me as I spill the beans about sharing the baby news with my family, especially my mom, and the mixed bag of emotions that followed.
The Big Reveal
I’ve had sharing the news of our upcoming bundle of joy with family on my mind, especially considering my mom’s strong beliefs about marriage before children. The worry weighed heavy, but with the support of my incredible fiancé, we decided to share the news with my family in a way that felt right for to me. We chose to set the stage during a family Thanksgiving gathering, providing the perfect backdrop with the little ones around to temper any immediate negative reactions.
The Tense Moment
As the Sunday after Thanksgiving rolled around, we seized the opportunity to break the news while the family gathered together. As we were on our way back to our house from visiting his family, we made the call. I chatted with my little nieces and nephews before dropping the baby bombshell. The initial confusion on my mom’s face transitioned to what seemed like understanding, but instead of a response, she walked away out of sight. Although it seemed like mom caught the news, I wanted to confirm her awareness. I sent the little messengers out to tell her explicitly.
Deafening Silence
The aftermath was both expected and unexpected. No words were exchanged during the call, and the silence lingered even as we boarded our plane. A congratulatory message from my sister-in-law was a glimmer of acknowledgment, but the rest of the family maintained radio silence. It left me grappling with a mix of emotions, from sadness to a lack of surprise.
Dad’s Confirmation
The evening and next morning passed without a peep from my mom or brothers, until a call with my dad on Monday afternoon brought a sliver of clarity. It turns out my mom had heard, but whether it registered or she chose not to acknowledge it remained uncertain. When she questioned my dad if I was pregnant, he confirmed to her that I was. My dad’s supportive comment, “It’s a gift,” brought a flicker of a smile from my mom, but the void of direct communication persisted.
Moving Forward
It’s Wednesday, and my mom’s silence echoes loudly. While part of me yearns for her support, I’ve come to terms with my role in this situation. I’ve shared the news. My dad has confirmed she is aware. The ball is in her court. Now that both of our immediate families know, we are telling extended family and friends. My fiancé and I are bubbling with excitement, ready to love and cherish our baby, regardless of external reactions.
Conclusion
As we navigate these uncharted family waters, one thing is certain—we are steadfast in our joy and anticipation for the little one on the way. Time will unfold the dynamics with my mom, but our focus remains on building a loving foundation for our growing family. Stay tuned for more updates as we embrace the bumps and blessings along this unique journey!
